The Family

Families are also affected by eating disorders. Read the following for information on how to survive an eating disorder.

• Keep notes about behavior that seems to be a problem.
• Do some research on your own so you can be familiar with the problem.
• If the family member is your child, be responsible and authoritative about getting help.
• Be patient.
• Do not keep the condition a secret. Find a support group, clergy, a therapist, or all three.
• Tell your family member what is bothering you, and tell him or her that you will help.
• Accept that recovery from an eating disorder takes time and is a gradual process.
• Participate in family therapy. It is usually an important part of treatment.
• Don't let any arguments, blame, guilt, or resentment affect you.
• You can contribute by taking care of yourself.